I made a decision he was “the one” when he asked me what book he could read that would help him get to know me on a deeper level. I was reading the Celestine Prophecy and had made it to the “6th insight”. A few days later, he casually mentioned what he learned from the “9th insight”. I was stunned he not only got the book but was ahead of me already. Later I learned he didn’t actually read the book but listened to it on tape – but even with this shortcut, his approach to getting to know me was at the least unique and thoughtful. Dating after a breakup can feel like stepping into uncharted territory, especially when you’re trying to figure out if a new person in your life is “the one” or just… another one. When did you first realize that someone you were dating after your breakup might be worth taking seriously?
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I have found myself really hesitant to open myself up enough to even consider anyone as ‘the one’ again after having been through a marriage and divorce. I almost feel like I closed that part of myself off. Maybe that just means it is not time for me to get involved yet. Should I even be dating if I can’t take things to the next level?1 month ago
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