Life after a significant relationship ends can feel like uncharted territory, especially when the single years stretch longer than anticipated. For many women, this period can bring profound self-discovery, resilience, and new beginnings. Yet, loneliness, and being a “third wheel” in social settings, can feel isolating. The good news is it doesn’t have to! Split Happens is your go-to membership for finding connection, compassion, and clarity during this challenging time. With a welcoming community of individuals who truly “get it,” you’ll find a safe space to share your experiences, gain insights, and form lasting friendships.
Beyond emotional support, our platform provides expert resources to help you tackle the practical challenges of rebuilding your life. From financial planning tools and custody advice to wellness strategies and mental health guidance, Split Happens equips you with everything you need to move forward and rebuild your life your way. If you have been flying solo for a while, read on.
Some actionable steps to take in your solo season could include:
- Cultivate an Intentional Social Circle: Reconnecting with old friends, joining interest-based groups, or attending community events can build a supportive network. Look for groups that focus on your passions—whether it’s a book club, hiking group, or professional association. By surrounding yourself with like-minded people, you’ll nurture relationships that don’t revolve around being part of a couple.
- Shortcut Slays: Try apps Meetup or Peanut to find and connect with people who share your interests.
- Prioritize Solo Adventures and Personal Growth: Embrace the freedom of exploring life on your terms. Traveling alone, taking up a hobby, or enrolling in a course are enriching ways to invest in yourself. These experiences not only enhance your confidence but also remind you that your happiness is not contingent on others.
- Split Slay: Learn a new language (in-person or online classes, or self-paced options) and begin planning and saving for a trip to that country.
- Serve, Support, and Shine: Loneliness often dissipates when we focus on helping others. Volunteering for causes close to your heart creates opportunities to meet compassionate, driven individuals while giving you a renewed sense of purpose.
- Solo Success Strategy: Consider volunteering at one or more of the following:
- Mentorship Programs: Volunteer as a mentor for at-risk youth, helping them navigate education and personal growth. Organizations like Big Brothers Big Sisters or Girls Inc. offer meaningful opportunities to make a difference.
- Animal Shelters: Support your local animal rescue or shelter, caring for animals in need and building connections with like-minded animal lovers.
- Community Outreach: Join food banks, soup kitchens, or domestic violence or other women’s shelters to provide hands-on help to those in your area facing hardships.
Whatever you choose, you’ll feel deeply connected to the impact you’re making.
