My kids hate going with their dad every other weekend. They cry and have fits every time he picks them up. I have no evidence to think he is hurting them, they just don’t have a close relationship with him and he doesn’t take great care of them. It breaks my heart to see them sobbing every weekend they leave, and I wonder how they are when they are gone. I know he isn’t cooking meals or playing with them. I seriously wonder if they even bathe while they are gone. Going back to court to fight custody will cost more money than I have. I am at a loss of how to handle this and talk my kids through it!